What Makes A Man?
The Anatomy Of The Penis
Well, what does make a man? Is it the fact that we have a certain type of genitals? Or is the definition of manhood more closely aligned with the way we think and behave? These are things women need to know to satisfy men in bed.
And since few of us would deny that men and women are in fact rather different in the way they act, feel and possibly even the value systems they hold, is it meaningful to look at the superficial differences of the structure of the external genitalia and assign the character of a whole gender to an individual based on that phenotype? Of course, the answer is, no, it is not reasonable.
Video: structure of the penis
Even in the development of the external genitalia there are massive differences between individuals, and one's gender is a whole panoply of factors ranging from emotional to psychological to physical... let alone spiritual, too.
So the purpose of this website is to introduce the structure of the body as it would typically appear in a male - allowing for the fact that there are widespread individual differences. Of course, it is a given fact that most men regard the penis as the centre of their maleness: but that is only an external manifestation of the internal sense of being male, and a cultural association of the penis with masculinity (bigger = better = more masculine!)
If you ask a woman to ascribe values of maleness, the difference to those mentioned by men is striking.
Female characteristics are seen as: tolerance, sharing, politeness, caring, listening, sacrifice, equality, generosity, family, grace; male characteristics are perceived as: power, self-confidence, daring, humor, ambition, success, action, freedom, independence and discipline. But these bald statements do not touch upon the qualities that men and women live with, day to day.
Think of love, openness, care, compassion, concern. Think of being a good lover, a strong partner, emotionally supportive.
Aren't men supportive of women just as women are of men, but perhaps in a different way? And although men and women alike consider feminine values to be developing we may still be placing more value on traditionally feminine characteristics from a cultural point of view. And even though we attribute very similar values to men and women, nearly 90% of people are convinced that men and women are actually very different.
So in the anatomical discussion that follows, bear in mind that we are focusing very narrowly on sex and sexuality, rather than gender differences in emotions and behavior.
Think of this as a sexual primer, a way to increase you knowledge of what it takes to be a good lover. And in that context, remember that sexual dysfunction is not acceptable in a good relationship - or, rather, sexual problems are a barrier to a good sexual relationship.
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The Anatomy of the Male Genitals
The skin of the penis is hairless, thin, elastic and very sensitive, particularly so on the upper- and undersides. In uncircumcised men it fits loosely over the shaft and slips back and forth during sexual activity.
When it is pulled back it reveals the glans or tip of the
penis, which is generally cone-shaped, at the base of which there is a ridge
known as the corona. The glans is the most sensitive part of the phallus, richly
endowed with nerve-endings, and it is highly responsive to stimulation during
The only possible disadvantage of non-circumcision might be
that as the foreskin traps dirt, uncircumcised men should be particularly
scrupulous about their genital hygiene. They should regularly push the foreskin
back and wash the glans and corona with warm water.
This is a practice we would recommend only if you trust
your partner, otherwise any thrill
conferred by the novelty of the experience may be cancelled out by the reflex
anxiety it induced.
Men are sometimes alarmed, too, to find that they appear to have only one testicle, when in fact what has happened is that one has retreated into the canal that leads to the abdomen.
This canal serves as a kind of refuge for the very vulnerable glands. They get drawn up toward it, for example, when a man wades into cold water, or when any kind of danger threatens, and also during sexual arousal.
A very small number of males have an undescended testicle, one
that has not descended to the scrotum but remained in the abdominal canal. This
condition can be corrected surgically, preferably at an early age.
Seminal fluid forms the greater part of the fluid ejaculated by the man during his orgasm in sexual intercourse, and its purpose is to preserve and nourish the sperm, and provide a fluid medium in which they can move. The prostate lies just behind the bladder, and ducts lead from both these points into the urethra, or urinary passage.
Although this passage is used for
passing urine as well as semen, the two functions are never confused because a
man cannot urinate when he has an erection. Actually, as many men, know, this is
not entirely true. The reality is that a man cannot urinate when he is
ejaculating, but it is quite possible to urinate with an erection.
Many men who notice its appearance on the glans of the penis during sexual arousal mistake it for a premature seepage of semen.
Interestingly, this secretion occurs as a result of emotional or mental as opposed to mechanical sexual stimulation. It may not occur at all during an act of masturbation, but a man who is mentally aroused, may find that his Cowper's glands have been busily secreting even though his penis has only just begun to stiffen.
Certainly to sexually inexperienced men, these secretion can be something of an embarrassment, although the more sexually experienced man will regard them as just another exciting part of the whole sexual experience - certainly something to be savored and enjoyed, rather than embarrassed about. The ability to accept the secretions and natural actions of one's body in this way is a sign of a lack of shame and self-loathing.
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